Watch out my fellows out there! Not everyone that calls them-self your friend are truly your friend. They may smile at you, walk with you, dine with you, hang out with you or even share same household with you.
It is sometimes very difficult to know who your unfriendly friends are; but an important key to avoid and eliminate any unfriendly friends around you is to first know who you are, then identify what you want in life and how to get there. Do not put your trust in people but only in God.
It is very important to not share all your ideas and plans with friends. Guide and protect your intellectual property, never tell folks or friends what they want to know about you but rather tell them what you want them to know, that way you are in control of your contents.
Also be very careful and cautious sharing your weaknesses as well as your strong attributes with friends because the unfriendly friend will come back and use that to hurt you.
An unfriendly friend may even be a family member, those are the most difficult ones to detect. They are family and so they know you too well; they smile at your, they pretend, and they tell you they love you. Fellows be very vigilant because they will break you before you realize who they truly are.
Examine your friends, move or walk away from those pessimist, walk away from those that do not add value to you, walk away from those that do not believe in dynamism, walk away from those you cannot learn from and those that feel you have nothing to bring to the table, and finally walk away from those that do not understand the concept of time and season.
